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Bell Tower in Vigan City

We only just Vigan! LOL check this out on my IG account 

Photo were just taken from my phone only!

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5 Tips To Avoid Sadness

Let’s face the fact that we can’t escape to feel sad or emotionally in pain. People often undergo in this situation if something bad happens from their day to day living.

Read what are some tips that can help you not to feel sad or feel sorry about yourself.


5. Avoid stupid people in your life!

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Surrounded by stupid people can increase the level of your sadness especially when you communicate with them every day and talks about their life or other people’s story. Sometimes we didn’t noticed that we adopt the way they act and on how they pass their problems to you. Yes you wouldn’t know that while they’re sharing their sad story, you tend to apply it with your life and that’s what makes you feel more sad. Additionally, you may not know how they act behind your back.

4. Read inspirational books

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Read books! Of course you should choose what books can help to relieve sadness. According to a study, reading can melt away stress. It can keep you calm and relax but try to find inspiring books or stories which helps you to be optimistic.

3. Hang out with your TRUE friends.

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Hanging out with your friends can help you to forget your problems. Take time to travel or go somewhere that is peaceful and/or you’ll enjoy. You might take a look from beautiful scenery, take photos and feel the fresh air!


2. Avoid sharing your problems with other people.

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Sometimes sharing your problems doesn’t help a lot. Instead it makes it even worse than you didn’t expect. For example, you have a problem with your family and you’ve shared it with somebody and then he/she accidentally spill it out with someone you don’t actually like and that caused your story to spread from everyone. Well yeah, we don’t want it to happen right? So if you can’t stop sharing your problem, please know the person you should trust. Or maybe just right it down with a piece of paper to lessen your grief.
1. Stay connected with your Family and our God.

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In times that you think everyone left you, always remember that your family will never left you no matter what! They are the right person you should trust to share the pain you feel inside. Also, know that God is there to guide us. So whenever you feel that your life is such a trash, just have faith in God and be strong! Moreover, stay positive that nothing worse will happen.

Nais kong mamulat…

Nais kong mamulat

Mamulat sa katotohanan na hindi ko na kayang paligayahin ka pa

Na hindi ko na magagawang yakapin ka pa o makasama pa ng matagal

Nais kong mamulat ngunit paano?

Paano kung maging sa panaginip ko hanggang sa paggising ko,

Ikaw parin ang hinahanap ko?

Sasabihin ko sa’yo

Ikaw parin ang hinahanap ko dahil mahal parin kita

Pero bumitaw kana

Bumitaw ka nga ba dahil hindi mahigpit ang hawak ko sa’yo?

Napakaimposible

Dahil nung araw na bibitiw ka

Ikaw ang nakahawak sa akin

Habang sinasabi mong “sorry, mahal kita pero mas mahal ko siya”

Hindi ko na narinig pa ang mga sumunod mong sinabi

Natulala na lang ako habang unti-unting nababalutan ng tubig ang mga mata ko

Hanggang sa tumalikod ka at naglakad palayo sa’kin.

Ilang buwan akong nagmukmok, nag-iisip kung bakit mas pinili mo siya?

Kung bakit mas mahal mo siya?

At kung bakit dalawa kaming mahal mo

Na ang pinagkaiba lang ay ang salitang “Mas”,

“Mas” mahal mo siya.

Siguro nga sapat na ‘to

Sapat na ‘to para ako’y mamulat

Mamulat sa katotohanan at tanggapin na hindi ako ang pinili mo.

Subalit sa pagmulat kong ito, isang katanungan ang tumatak sa aking isipan…

Paano ba’ng magmahal nang hindi nasasaktan?

Kaibigan

Maraming nagsasabi na ang kaibigan ay isa sa taong mahalaga sa ating buhay

Na ang kaibigan ay dapat mapagkakatiwalaan

Kumbaga sa magkasintahan, Loyal dapat sayo.

Ang isang kaibigan ay hindi ka iiwan kahit anong saya’t lungkot pa ang iyong nadarama

Mahirap ka man o mayaman, ito’y hindi makakahadlang.

Naalala ko nung araw na mas pinili ko yung kaibigan kong puntahan kaysa sa boyfriend ko

Dahil alam kong kailangan niya ko

Kailangan niya ko sa mga oras na nagdadalamhati siya sa paghihiwalay nila ng boyfriend niya.

Noong mga oras na umiiyak siya,

Ramdam na ramdam ko yung lungkot niya

Na para bang gusto ko na rin umiyak

Dahil noong araw na yun,

iniwan na rin ako ng boyfriend ko ’cause i chose my friend over him

Pero hindi ako umiyak. Moment niya yun e.

I chose my friend but he (my boyfriend) chose to break my heart.

Hindi ko alam kung ano ba talagang nararamdaman ko noon

Na para bang gusto nang sumabog ng puso ko

Na sa pag-uwi ko, tanging patak ng luha na lang sa aking mga mata ang lumabas

Kausap. Kausap siguro ang kailangan ko para maibsan ang sakit

Masaya ako dahil may kaibigan rin akong nandyan para sa’kin

Nakita ko kung gaano sila kapursige na pasayahin ako

Hanggang sa isang araw,

Nakita ko. Nakita ko yung taong nag-iwan ng sakit sa puso ko.

Oo aaminin ko may mali ako

Nagkamali ako

Nagkamali ako dahil mas pinili ko yung kaibigan ko

Mahalaga sila pareho sakin kaya sobrang hirap at masakit para sakin ang pumili

Pero wala nang mas sasakit pa nang makita ko siya

Nang makita ko siya na meron nang iba

At yun ay ang kaibigan ko.

Ngayon

Ngayon niyo sabihin sa akin

Kung gaano ba kahalaga ang isang kaibigan?

Na kahit mas pinili mo siya, pinagkatiwalaan, tinuring na parang kapatid, ay pinagtaksilan ka parin?

Paano mo nga ba masasabing Kaibigan kung yung mga araw na umiiyak siya at nandoon ka, ay isang malaking kalokohan lang?

Iba’t ibang emosyon ang naramdaman ko noon

Habang naglalakad kayo papunta sa’kin at sa ibang mga kasama ko

Kahit malayo pa kayo,

Alam kong nakatingin kayo sa’kin

Na para bang maamong tupa

At nang kayo’y lumapit

Hindi mo napigilan na hindi tumakbo palapit sa’kin

Siguro dahil napakabait mong kaibigan sakin?

Niyakap mo’ko at humingi ka ng tawad

Wala kayong narinig na salita mula sa aking bibig

Dapat nga ba? Dapat nga ba akong magbigay ng one more chance?

Ngunit paano? Paano kung ako’y muling maloko?

Natatakot ako.

Natatakot ako dahil baka muli na naman akong paikot-ikutin

Na baka sa bandang huli, hindi ko na mabigyan ng halaga pati sarili ko.

Pero sa araw na ‘yon

Nakapagdesisyon na rin ako

Pinapatawad ko kayo hindi dahil kaibigan kita at mahal ko siya

Pinapatawad ko kayo dahil sa ginawa niyong panloloko sa’kin.

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Its been a while! Hello world! ☺:)

Hurt

Undefine feelings

Full of thoughts that I couldn’t say

For there is fear inside my heart

That no one could ever listen.

I was like a mystery box

full of bright colors outside

and everyone’s trying to see the inside

if it is different or not

but it was locked

Nobody knows where to find the key

I never try to find it

Because I know it’s in your hands

I never try because I wanted to keep inside of it the moments that we had

‘Cause those moments are better left untold and will be just a memory

You put me in this place

Where I can smile, show happiness

but breaking inside the darkness.

I lose strength

Strength to believe in myself 

that I can stand up again in the road I should be walking to

Tears falling down my face 

but you didn’t see ‘coz you’re looking at someone else

Suddenly I was recovered and conscious

Realizing. Who are you to hurt me? You’re not worth crying for.

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